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Can I marry someone I met on Facebook?

I have met a guy on Facebook and we fell in love. Is it okay to marry someone I only know from social media?

Male circumcision and its side-effects

Some boys are circumcised while very young. Is this safe, or are there some complications associated with this procedure? What about at a later age?

The noisy virgin

I have been dating a girl for three years. She pretended to be a virgin, made weird noises when I inserted the penis into her vagina. Was she really a virgin?

How long should periods last?

My girlfriend has her period for two days only. Please, I need a solution to this problem. It wasn't like that in the beginning.

Can love work without sex?

Can love last after dating for four years and we've never had sex?

She doesn't want to come to my church

My girlfriend is in a different church. She has refused to join me and am not ready to join her church. What can I do?

Marrying a cheater?

Is it right to marry a man who divorced his wife because of cheating?

Understanding women and sex

My girl always denies me sex with her. In case we do have sex, she only gives me 2 shots, yet I’m not satisfied. What could be the problem?

Should I marry him?

I separated from my hubby, I immediately got into another relationship. It’s been four months. My new boyfriend wants to marry me, but I feel that am not ready.

Fertility: how do you know?

How can a man find out if he is fertile without impregnating a lady?

HPV, cancer, and warts: what's the deal?

I have heard that HPV can be contracted through kissing. Is this true?

Love or lust?

If a guy fucks you every day, does it show love or lust?