Is it good to go for expensive first dates and to experience someone with money or maybe gifts? a female reader asks. Yes. But only if you are interested, answers Valentine.
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Do I have to marry someone I made pregnant?
Do I need to force myself to marry a lady simply because I got her pregnant? asks a reader. Firstly, force yourself to think about it carefully, replies Valentine.
How do I masturbate my girlfriend?
My girlfriend wants me to masturbate her to orgasm. How do I do that? This happens to be a question that Valentine loves to answer!
Friends with benefits: is that possible?
I want to have sex with my friend. She wants to have sex with me. But we don’t want a relationship. Is that okay? a reader asks.
Too shy to ask her on a date?
There is this girl I really like, but I’m too shy to approach her. I really don’t know how to ask her for a date. Please help me out.
How can I get her to love again?
I asked a girl I really love to date me. But she said that she can’t because, after a series of heartbreaks, she’s unable to love. How can I gain her trust and love?
Are safe days safe?
My girlfriend hates condoms and all methods of birth control. We usually have sex during her safe days because we don’t want a pregnancy at this moment.
How to dump a nasty boyfriend
My boyfriend of four years has cheated on me. He insults me. But when I try to break-up, he keeps bothering me until I accept him back. What do I do?
‘Excess sperm’, my foot
A friend (17) has been dating a guy (26); they are both virgins. Now he wants her to help him discharge all his excess sperm with sex. He has promised marriage.
I love two ladies, whom should I marry?
I am 34 and single. I love two ladies. One is my age, works, has a lot of cash, never cooks or cleans my house, and rarely visits – she claims to be too busy.
Feeling gay, feeling abnormal
I’m having these feelings of being gay. I don’t know what is happening to me but I know it’s not normal. I have kissed a guy. I also love women. I’m just confused.
Elongating the labia
Sexual practices vary per culture, even from tribe to tribe. Some practices are harmful, others are intriguing. How does Valentine respond to elongating the labia?