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Hi Denis, Love is an intense feeling of deep affection towards another person. Love is warm, it is kind and patient. Love is forgiving. Love is a feel of a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone. Check this article for more information on what love is including how to tell if you are in-love;- https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/what-love

Hi Banks, If you are into the person, when you have not said to them you love them for a long time, when you are constantly arguing and fighting, when you no longer have sex and the relationship just doesn't give that feeling it gave you before. Check out the following article with more information on when you should consider a break up. https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/breaking-up/knowing-when-to-break-up

Hi...am 17 i worry about dating because i thnk am young am a dayscolar bt a well bhaved gal i've got some admirers bt am only friends with them bt it obvious at our age there are those feelings....so lovematters do u thnk it right for me to be in a relationship????

Hi Vikki, It is important for you to prioritize what you want to do in life. Relationships can be a challenge to manage especially when you also have school to think about. Take time and think about what is important for you now and focus your energies there. All the best.

am in a relationship. the guy always tells me how much he loves me . but only calls me once in awhile .pliz help is this man true. ..?iwish to gve up

Hey Irene, Communication is important for any relationship and especially when you are just starting out since this is when you are getting to know each other. Have you talked to him about this? It is important you express your expectations in the relationship an also allow him to express his own expectation in the relationship so that you are on the same page. Also, communication is two way, have you tried to initiate communication when you felt he was not... Find a good time and talk about this so that you ca agree on how to proceed. We wish you well. Check out the following article for more tips on communication. https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/happy-relationships/tips-for-talking-to-your-partner

Hi Khadija, People meet in all sorts of spaces, fall in love and go on to have great relationships. This may however not work for everyone, some people may still prefer a face to face from the on set. Check out the following article for more information:- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/meeting-someone/meeting-online

Pls my boyfriend is still in touch with his ex galfrnds as in chatting wid them, they calling him and he also calling them which I hate to see him doing dat .what shd I do. Pls help me out.

Hi Precious, It is important you talk to your boyfriend about this and how it makes you feel. If a relationship with an ex is not well managed it can interfere with ones current relationship. It is even possible to slip back into an intimate relationship with an ex. Talk to your partner about this so you can both decide how to proceed.

Am in a relationship n we are planning to marry,my boyfriend is always busy during the day,wat scare mi is he do cal mi afta some couple of days, sometyms he is online bt he can't text mi,.am very worried pliz advice.thanks

Hi Joyce, Have you raised this concern with him? Let him know how this makes you feel, share with him know your fears. A lack of communication may lead you to growing apart in the relationship. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/relationship-problems/jealousy-and-other-problems
Collince vit
Fri, 09/29/2017 - 09:52

My girlfriend likes sex very much and everytime she insists of visiting me but wen I refused she don't wanna tok to me anymore and I fear she might do it with anyone else incase I refuse!

Hi Collince, Is there a reason why you refuse to have sex with her when she visits or calls to visit? There is no way to tell but yes she may choose to be with someone else. Perhaps before that happens you need to talk about this and find a way forward that will work well for the both of you. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex

Hey Alonyo, Think about the kind of person you want for a partner and then get into situations that you will be likely to meet this person. These may include social events. Check out the following article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/meeting-someone/how-to-date

My friend wants take my gal friend he told he destroyed my name to name And nw she nt picking my 4ne call wen she picks just ask wat do u want wen i tell her that i wana talk to she switch the 4ne n i call again she fails to pick

Hey Edcom, So sorry about this. It is difficult to talk to a person who won't talk to you or listen to you. There is little you can do if she has chosen to listen other people and not you. You have to let her go and move if she is unwilling to give you a chance to explain what she may have been told. Check out this article for tips on coping with a breakup;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/breaking-up/coping-with-a-break-up
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